Train Your Brain To Up Your Game. I work with high school and college athletes to maximize their potential both on and off the field by reducing the pressures they face and develop the confidence they want, to help them consistently perform at their best, and enabling them to boldly face their transitions to and from college. As we work together, we will ignite their inner greatness to live and play fearless, focused, and free.
IGNITING GREATNESS
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
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When training for a new race, the distance doesn't matter - it's the intention behind the effort - so no matter how far you go, it's a step further than not trying.
Letting Go of Anger
We all have and experience anger in our lives, but it's our reaction to that anger that sets the direction of our ability to be happy. It's when we hold onto something that has made us angry that we stop "living". We stop having the ability to see and accept new opportunities in our lives. We think holding onto our anger, telling our story over and over will actually make us feel better, but all it does is keep us stuck in that negative energy place. We re-live the pain, we continue to let it linger in our bodies, we prevent good things from entering our worlds.
So the next time something makes you angry, you have a fight with a loved one, get cut off on the road and you feel that rage, allow yourself to feel it, express your emotions, process what has happened, take some time, and then let it go. Holding onto it will serve no one, especially you. And be very aware of the disease of "being right" - this one piece would free many people from themselves. As Dr. Phil states "would you rather be right or be happy".
Only you can decide........
So the next time something makes you angry, you have a fight with a loved one, get cut off on the road and you feel that rage, allow yourself to feel it, express your emotions, process what has happened, take some time, and then let it go. Holding onto it will serve no one, especially you. And be very aware of the disease of "being right" - this one piece would free many people from themselves. As Dr. Phil states "would you rather be right or be happy".
Only you can decide........
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Don't Ride the Roller Coaster
When we can truly grasp the concept that we cannot control the actions or thoughts of anyone else, you will free yourself and create an opportunity for greater happiness. By letting that go you will avoid the roller-coaster of getting caught in other people's emotions and actions.
You are responsible for and control only you - get that and be happy.....
You are responsible for and control only you - get that and be happy.....
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